Contempt, scorn, gaslighting — what is the commonality?

Can you recall hearing that taunting chant of the nursery rhyme, “I’m the king of the castle, and you’re the dirty rascal.”

Attaining the highest position on the playground equipment ensured an elevation of status. To hold the position of king demonstrated domination and public gloating of your reigning moment — was it all just a harmless children’s game?